Apr 12, 2009
Seduction Technique 101
Seduction, contrary to popular opinion, is not an inborn gift or a talent that some guys are naturally born with. Seduction comes with practice even for those blessed with great looks and loads of money. If you want to ensure the success of your attempts at seduction, make sure that you’re equipped with the right seduction techniques.
Seduction Techniques: The Golden Rules of Attraction
We’re now going to tell you what and what not to do if you’re interested in seducing a woman, pay attention because making one mistake might prove your undoing.
Everyone Wants to Feel Beautiful
Who doesn’t? This isn’t necessarily as easy as it sound. Don’t use empty words of flattery when trying to make your date feel beautiful - be sincere in your compliments. Tell her about the things that truly attract you the most, even if they are things that she doesn’t believe are attractive about her.
Remember as well that inner beauty is just as if not more important than good looks or a good body. This is especially critical for women who are already externally beautiful and are wishing to find men who could see beyond their looks.
Why Do You Want to Seduce Her?
The goal for tonight is to make her happy. That’s also the best reason and motivation to seduce a woman: wanting to be intimate with your date because you believe it’s the right time and that it will give pleasure to both of you. If seduction’s on your mind simply for self-serving purposes, there’s a strong chance you’ll be going home alone. Women are very intuitive: most of them are able to easily guess if you’re simply after them for their bodies and nothing else.
It’s Her Night and Not Yours
As stated, tonight’s goal focuses on your date’s pleasure. You must therefore do your utmost to make the night as special as possible by focusing on satisfying her wants and needs. It’s time to be selfless. Concentrate on making her smile and laugh. Exerting genuine effort will also help in endearing yourself to her and give her more reason to allow you to seduce her.
Timing is Very Important
Women absolutely hate it when men appear to think of seduction as a race. Remember that the finer things in life are better when savoured. Rather than devouring the time, why not let it pass gracefully and you’ll soon find your date responding more passionately to you, moved by your consideration for her feelings.
On the other hand, it’s going to be a nightmare if you let your nerves get to you! Admittedly, failing to reach your objective will be a crushing humiliation but too much hesitation and delay could end up turning your date off. It’s okay to take things slowly…but make sure that you don’t overdo it or someone else might beat you to the finish line!
Please keep in mind that the tips given above are aimed at providing pleasure for the woman. If, however, you’re genuinely attracted to your date, giving her pleasure will give you pleasure as well.