The following are some tips for guys on how to get girls, especially precious exes, without losing your dignity.

1. Don’t be a pain! You don’t own the girls that you like, even if she’s already your girlfriend or used to be, you still don’t have the right to make the decisions for her and/or act like you cannot live without her. While the movies may make this seem like an appealing trait, most women don’t respond to ultimatums or desperate men.

2. Act as naturally as you can. Naturally doesn’t constitute weird mannerisms, goofy behaviour or larger than life gestures. A new girl will respond to your personality if you allow it to shine though. If she’s your ex-girlfriend, on the other hand, then avoid performing and telling her that you’ve changed is you really haven’t. Any girl who has spent time with you will be able to see right through you. If you really want to change then you should be able to show her through your actions, rather than your words.

3. Be distinctive. Women have different requirements in what they look for in a man. While guys are easily drawn by physical appearances, and will probably be endlessly attracted by a few default appearances, women more often than not are looking for someone that stands out. Think about your greatest attribute - the trait your friends associate with you and try and ensure this is the impression you give the girl.

Be careful not to take it too far though, if you’re the funny one then be humorous but not offensive or a clown. If you’re the silent type then it’s good to be mysterious but not to the extent when you seem conceited or creepy. If you’re trying to win your ex-girlfriend then, be the man that she wants you to be without sacrificing your own self. Start by cutting out the things that she hates the most.

4. Be considerate. One fundamental tip on how to get girls is to be sensitive to their needs. This is more on the emotional rather than the physical or financial side of things. Most of the time break ups are decided by the girl because she feels that his man is unresponsive, oblivious and insensitive. To win her back you have to prove that you’re not tactless, inconsiderate and obtuse.

These are just four tips on how to get girls. Ultimately, women want their men to be loving and respectful. Show them these two traits and be ready to get success sooner than you think.

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