let’s say I’m walking down the beach and I see a beautiful woman sitting down by the shore.

I walk up to her and ask her a question.

It can be any question.

If nothing comes up in your mind, then just ask her if she knows any good places to eat around the beach.

Now comes the best part. After hearing what she has to say, I look at her, smile and say “You know what… I was just kidding around. I’m from here and I know this place like the back of my hand. I just came here because I think you are cute and I wanted to get to know you a little bit.”

Then she usually blushes and becomes speechless afterwards.

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How do you get that girl to like you? It is simple. Have lots of money, drive a hot car, and be powerful. Now most would think that this is an absolute but ask most women and they will say that money and power is not everything. You may see a lot of rich and powerful men having the hottest babes but do those girls like the man or his money?

The truth is - any guy given the right opportunity can make the girl of his dreams like him.

First, here are some things you need to avoid when you are thinking on how to get a girl to like you:

Body odour - who likes this? Be sure to watch your hygiene when you are trying to impress someone.

Being egocentric - the world does not revolve around you - thinking it does is not how to get a girl to like you.

Being diffident - although this can be cute in small amounts, being very shy is not the way to go. Especially for a guy, lack of confidence is a big turn off.

Here is how to get a girl to like you:

Be friendly even with the girls that don’t take your fancy - there is a big probability that these girls would have girlfriends that you like. And a girl putting in a good word for you is a big plus.

Be sensitive - you should know the right things to say at the right time. Know when to fool around and when to be serious. Recognize when you need to be a shoulder to cry on or when you need to give space. Be sure to put her feelings into consideration when doing anything.

Be responsible - a guy she can rely on will definitely be a guy she will like. If she can trust you she will like you.

Be humorous - what girl can resist a guy that can make her laugh. A funny guy will always have girls around him. Girls like a lively person, someone to have fun with.

Be open – if she is sharing a lot of things to you, make her feel that she is also a friend to you. Share your problems. Let her know your vulnerable side. You do not have to act all manly and strong all the time.

Have you noticed the trend there? These things came from real girls. It is not just the physical appearance or the wealth a guy has that attracts women. They are individuals that like more than superficial things.

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People fall in love and want to have a steady relationship with a girl. But to some, it doesn’t come easy. One basic problem is how to get the girl that you are dreaming about.

In truth it’s not as difficult as it can appear. Just having the right attitude of believing in yourself is a key aspect. Take a positive look at yourself, be happy and enjoy the brighter things in life. Always feel and be your best, wear a smile on your face and be confident. Accept what you are physically and refrain from negative thoughts that cause problems. But make sure to improve yourself too, don’t get positivity confused with arrogance or complacency. Ensure your personal grooming and hygiene is of the highest order. A person who is happy and content within himself has the best chance of getting the girl they desire.

There are 3 key areas that can help you have the best chance with women.

First on the list is a genuine, confident smile. Many women feel comfortable and at ease when a man is relaxed and happy. It starts with having a great smile. Try smiling at strangers, even when you don’t feel particularly happy, and you’ll be surprised how many smile back at you. Just ensure your smile is genuine, rather than forced or cheesy as these can be counter productive.

Next is to make use of one of the most powerful seductive tools – the eyes. Making eye contact with a girl can convey more about your desires and intentions than a long conversation, and using techniques such as looking away and looking back, you can gauge how available and interested she may be. Make sure you aren’t leering or staring at her in an intimidating manner – you want her to know you are looking and be pleased about it, rather than angry or scared.

Finally – you need the gift of pleasant, interesting conversation. Steer clear of depressing or controversial subjects, ask her questions about herself, and make comments that demonstrate your attentiveness and interest.

These 3 simple steps can lead you to the girl of your dreams.

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I saw a girl in a club leaning up against the wall with a slight frown on her face. She was by herself so with no group to introduce myself to or engage, I walked up to her and stopped about two feet away, looked at her over my shoulder and with a slight smile on my face said “Wow, don’t enjoy yourself too much there.”

That was all it took to put a smile on her face and start a conversation with this good-looking brunette. There was nothing sophisticated said, no special line, just a general observation.

You have probably heard that 90% of communication is non verbal, and approximately only 10% is verbal. So with the right body language and tone you can strike up a relationship with a stranger using almost any line of dialogue.

By walking up in a non-confrontational way, not directly approaching her and speaking slowly with a deep voice, smiling and keeping eye contact I come across as a confident, man to be valued, rather than dismissed.

If this sounds a long way from your method for approaching a girl, don’t worry, these key traits are can be developed with a bit of practice.

There are three common types of opening lines:

• Indirect
• Direct
• Situational

An indirect opener can be anything that isn’t blatantly displaying interest. For example, “do you have the time?” However, you generally want to ask questions that people can expand on and not give you a quick yes or no answer.

For example:

“Hey, (pause) quick question. Should I keep growing my hair or should I cut it?

Alright well, most guys say chop it off, but most girls think I should keep growing it. I personally think guys have bad taste, I don’t know about you.”

Then I will transition into something else, once they start talking I can turn the conversation to them because “I noticed something really neat about one of them”.

A direct opener would be something like:

“Hi, I have to get going in a second but you have a fantastic energy about you, I just had to come tell you. Here, jot down your number and if I find some time later I’ll try and shoot you a message.”

Notice what I did there, “I have to get going” - conveying I’m a busy man and have things to do. Secondly, I’m complimenting her on something other than her looks. Lastly “if I find some time later I’ll try and shoot you a message”. A message is less threatening than a phone call in a woman’s eyes, and if you do not want to go for a number try an email/facebook contact which most people will give without hesitation.

Remember, when it comes to direct approaching it’s all about smiling, tone of voice, body language and confidence. If you can display a certain amount of confidence while you approach your success rate will rapidly multiply.

Lastly are situational openers, probably my favourite and most used out of the three. Situational openers are picking something out that is going on around you and making a comment about it.

Example, “did you see the guy outside with the pink suit and the 2 foot high Mohawk? He tried to cut the line; the bouncer used his hair as a handle and launched him onto the curb. Guess he wasn’t feelin the pink suit.”

Some people worry that their pre-determined opener will get noticed, and maybe it will; however, if you use a situational opener and discuss what’s going on at the venue then you will have no problem with that.

In a nutshell you want to:

• Be aware of your non verbal communication
• Have a few lines prepared just in case nothing interesting is going on at the time
• Relax and realize that opening is one of the easiest parts of pick up
• Go out and open as many groups of people you can - be social

All it takes is practice, so the more you’re out in the field the more successful you will become.

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What does it mean to seduce? There is an idea that seduction implies an unethical persuasion, designed to mislead someone innocent into doing your evil bidding. When you hear the term “seduction” nowadays it carries a direct sexual connotation. The truth is that you’re not out to manipulate anyone - you just want to have more sex, and the more, the sooner, the better!

Of course, many men complain that taking a woman to bed is much more difficult than it should be. This is how the term “seduction” came into play. Men, who were so sexually frustrated at the number of rejections suffered at the hands of women, decided that they would “seduce” women for their own sexual pleasure if necessary. Back when women were more restrained by the scruples of a moral majority-controlled society, it wasn’t ladylike to have sex just because a woman desired a man. The sexual revolution took care of this for a while, but just a few years’ later sexually transmitted diseases changed attitudes once more.

Today, thanks in part to aggressive sexual education campaigns, safe sex innovations, along with advances in internet technology; we are experiencing a sort of second sexual revolution. This is good news for you, the excessively horny man whose taste for beautiful women can’t be quenched.

The only problem is, despite all of these changes in sexual attitudes many men still don’t understand why they are being rejected. The problem is these men are still stuck in the early 20th century. They are still trying to “seduce” a woman by conforming to behaviour that is outdated and insulting to the modern woman of today.

Most modern women, with a few exceptions, enjoy sex and want sex. Women are now quite similar to men in their sexual makeup; with the only major difference being that women are usually turned on emotionally, while men remain visual lovers.

If a man approaches a woman with sex on the mind and comes across like a creepy pimp, then he is only appealing to the woman visually. He is offering no emotional depth, no emotional challenge or anything besides opportunity. And if there’s one thing that women have plenty of, it’s opportunity. Therefore, in order to elevate yourself into a higher class of lover, you need to appeal to the woman emotionally as well as visually.

Have you been told that women enjoy expensive gifts, constant praise & affection and friendly-to-a-fault courtship behaviour? You were misinformed! You are not trying to “seduce” a woman. You just want sex and you should convey that thought through body language, eye contact, heavy flirting and extreme confidence. The biggest mistake you can make is in assuming that a woman doesn’t want sex and has to be deceived into saying yes. Women want to say yes!

By remaining true to yourself, and stripping away the outdated, genteel approach of the repressed ages past, you will start to charm women with your funny and endearing personality. Be yourself and don’t be afraid of sex if you want it that badly, the results will surprise you!

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